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You’re in the middle of planning your wedding, and suddenly you realize: the first dance. Now what? You have no dance experience, and you’re worried that it will feel awkward, that your dance will look stiff, or that the result will seem too “staged.” Maybe your wedding date is fast approaching, and you’re wondering if there’s still time to learn something that will make an impression. This article is here to ease those worries. Because yes, even without experience, you can confidently perform a beautiful first dance.
A common concern many couples have is that they lack dance experience. Maybe one or both of you feel like you’re clumsy, or you’re afraid you won’t move smoothly or gracefully. This is a fear I encounter with almost every couple. But trust me, anyone can learn to dance. The key is starting with simple, basic steps that you can always rely on. Even if you’re starting last-minute, there’s always something beautiful we can create. In just a few lessons, I’ll teach you how to dance together with confidence and ease.
A first dance should feel right—not just for the guests watching, but especially for you as a couple. That’s why I create a personalized dance for every couple. Whether you want a classic, romantic dance or something more playful and fun, I make sure it fits your style. My goal is for you to feel comfortable, for the dance to tell your story, and for there to be a perfect balance between sparkling moments and calm, intimate ones. This way, you can enjoy both the dance and each other.
Everyone learns in their own way. Some people like structure, while others learn by listening to the music. I tailor my lessons to your learning style. We go as fast or slow as you need and repeat as often as necessary. At the end of every lesson, I record a video of what we’ve practiced so you can continue rehearsing at home. I recommend going over the dance at least once a day. If that’s not possible, just watching the video a few times helps you recognize and remember the moves. The more you practice, the more confident you’ll feel on your big day.
One of the most important things I teach couples is how to keep going when something doesn’t go as planned. Perfection doesn’t exist, and it doesn’t have to. In our lessons, we practice how to handle small mistakes without letting it become awkward. By working with small sequences of dance moves that you can comfortably perform together, you can always fall back on the basics. This gives you peace of mind and space to enjoy the moment.
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When practicing at home, you might have questions. How did that one move go again? I’m always available via WhatsApp for questions and tips. Whether you need last-minute feedback or help with a specific move, I’m here to assist you. So, there’s no need to struggle with uncertainty between lessons. Together, we’ll make sure you feel confident on your big day.
A beautiful first dance doesn’t happen overnight, but with practice and my guidance, it’s absolutely achievable. Even without prior dance experience, you’ll soon step onto the dance floor with confidence and enjoy a moment that truly reflects you as a couple.
I hope that after reading this article, you now feel confident that we can still create something beautiful and fun for your first dance.
Shall we schedule a first lesson?
Send me an email to info@slowfeetstudio.nl with your names, wedding date, the song you’d like to dance to, and any preferences for choreography or improvisation. Not sure about those last two yet? Let me know, and perhaps the following articles can help you decide: